7 Major Mistakes Women Make that Push Men Away

No one sets out to sabotage their relationship. Most of us have only the best intentions. We want it to work. We think about it, maybe even obsess over it, we put our heart on the line, we invest ourselves. Since our intentions are pure, it seems like we should get a positive outcome…but this isn’t always the case. I get a lot of heat when I write about what women are doing wrong. I get accused of blaming women, of defending men. But I’m doing neither. My job isn’t to excuse or blame, my job is to share and enlighten. I have spent most of my life studying human behavior and using my insights to help people improve their lives and.....

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15 Revealing Signs The Two Of You Are Destined To Be Together

Even when you're crazy in love with someone, it can often be hard to know if he or she is "right" for you.  How do you know you won't feel differently in a year? Ten years? A lifetime?  Deciding if you can commit to someone is a deeply personal determination, and everyone has different criteria. As in any verdict, you have to start by assessing the evidence.

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Solid Signs He Still Loves His Ex and Is Only Dating You As a Diversion

We might seek the X-factor in a man, but the "ex" factor is undoubtedly the bane of every woman’s existence.  It's that horrid moment when you start to realize you're in a relationship with a man that you love, but who may still have feelings his ex that he simply can't seem to let go of.  Does he still love his ex? It's said that, as women, we are gifted in our abilities to instinctively sense when something is wrong. If you're honest with yourself, there may have been a few red flags in the beginning if you've fallen for a guy who's not over his ex.

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Signs His Dating You Because He Hates Being Alone

Have you ever been deep in a relationship and still find yourself wondering if he's into you? Sadly, it's very common these days to be in a one-sided relationship.  As if that's not already a sad enough truth, you must ask yourself how you went so long without even noticing the signs he's using you!

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7 Fantastic Tips on how to become a better lover for Your Man

Ladies: There is no perfect man. Get over it. And in case you didn’t get the memo; you are not perfect either. I know, hard to believe. But have you ever noticed that there are no words spoken after “Happily Ever After”? Why doesn’t anyone talk about that? You know the moments after you throw yourself into a relationship? Maybe that’s because we don’t understand relationship maintenance at all or really how to care for each other past the first blush of heat. Do you really know how to love a man or are you living in constant conflict?....

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5 Steps to Make Any Man Fall in Love

I got an e-mail from a reader the other day saying: “All that is great (it was in response to a newsletter article I sent out), but what are the steps to make a man fall in love with me?!” I had to laugh at the (seemingly) adorable naiveté of her questions. To think making a man fall in love could be reduced to a simple set of instructions! Later in the day, I started thinking about her question a little more. The more I thought about it, the more I realized that getting a man to fall in love really can be achieved following a few simple steps. And I was instantly able to pinpoint what they are. Here you go: Step 1: Attraction This is the most obvious step…sparking a guy’s interest always starts with attraction. Being attractive to a guy doesn’t necessarily mean looking like a cover girl, it really boils down to being confident with who you are and what you look like...

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10 Signs He Loves You Secretly

We’ve probably all heard the philosophy that when a guy is into you, he’ll make sure you know it. While that idea is floating around out there for good reason, it’s not always as black and white as you’d think. Even when a guy is clear about his intentions, if you’re lacking self-esteem yourself, you might subconsciously label it as something different. Revealing romantic feelings for another person requires a level of vulnerability that’s always going to be hard – no matter your gender. Just because men are traditionally more upfront about their feelings than some women doesn’t mean that all guys are pros at showing their hand. MORE: 11 Undeniable Signs He’s In Love With You Some guys take the slow play approach, not doing anything too bold but consistently nosing into your orbit. Others prefer moves that are pretty much undeniable, regardless of your confidence. If you’re in the unenviable position of trying to decide how much a guy cares about you, we’re here to help. Here are 26 of the signs a guy is confessing his love...

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